Engaging in light-hearted, yet thoughtful discussions can strengthen bonds within the Christian community. These 25 “This or That” questions are tailored for Christians looking to spark fun and meaningful conversations, whether in small groups, among friends, or even during family gatherings.
1. Bible study or prayer meeting?
Choose between deepening biblical knowledge or focusing on communal prayer. Both activities enrich your spiritual life but may suit different preferences or needs at various times.
2. Traditional hymns or contemporary worship music?
This question explores musical preferences in worship settings, reflecting on how each style affects your worship experience and connection to God.
3. Read the Old Testament or New Testament?
Discuss which part of the Bible you are drawn to more currently, whether it’s the rich history and laws of the Old Testament or the teachings and life of Jesus in the New Testament.
4. Christian non-fiction or Christian fiction?
Some prefer factual, theological insights, while others enjoy the parables and imaginative stories that echo Christian themes. Which resonates more with you?
5. Early morning or late-night devotions?
When do you feel more connected to God? This question can lead to discussions about personal rhythms and spiritual practices.
6. Serve locally or go on a mission trip?
This highlights preferences in outreach, whether you’re drawn to impacting your immediate community or engaging in broader global missions.
7. Journaling or meditating?
Explore if you prefer expressing your thoughts and prayers through writing or reflecting silently, each a powerful method of spiritual introspection.
8. Group Bible study or solo reading?
Do you thrive in a community learning environment, or do you prefer the solitude and personal space of individual study?
9. Volunteer at church or in the community?
Determine whether your service is more connected to church functions or broader community needs, reflecting on where you feel your efforts are most impactful.
10. Listen to a sermon or read a devotional?
Explore whether you engage more deeply with spoken or written words, each offering unique insights and spiritual nourishment.
11. Attend a worship concert or a church retreat?
Decide between a high-energy praise experience and a reflective, extended time away focused on spiritual growth.
12. Fasting or feasting?
Discuss the spiritual disciplines of fasting and feasting, both biblical but serving different spiritual purposes.
13. Witness to friends or to strangers?
Consider whether you find it more compelling to share your faith with those you know well or with those you’ve just met.
14. Christian podcasts or Christian radio?
Choose between the typically more in-depth discussions found in podcasts or the varied and music-filled offerings of radio.
15. Online church service or in-person service?
Reflect on your experiences and preferences, especially considering recent shifts in how many attend church.
16. Organized Bible plan or random scripture reading?
Discuss whether you prefer a structured approach to reading the Bible or selecting passages as led in the moment.
17. Pray silently or out loud?
This question can lead to insights about personal prayer practices and comfort levels in expressing faith openly.
18. Christian conferences or small group gatherings?
Decide if you prefer the excitement and scale of large events or the intimacy and deep connections of small group interactions.
19. Memorize scripture or reflect on a single verse?
Do you focus on committing verses to memory, or prefer to deeply ponder the implications of one verse at a time?
20. Lead or follow in group prayers?
Discuss your comfort level and spiritual gifts in leading prayer or if you feel more connected following along with another’s words.
21. Summer Bible camp or winter retreat?
Seasonal preferences can influence your choice of when and how you engage in extended periods of communal spiritual activities.
22. Donate money or donate time?
Unpack your views on stewardship and what you feel constitutes the most valuable offering—financial support or personal involvement.
23. Christian biographies or scripture commentaries?
Choose between learning from the lives of notable Christians or deepening understanding of the Bible through expert analyses.
24. Prayer chains or prayer groups?
Whether you prefer the ongoing commitment of a prayer chain or the face-to-face support of a prayer group can reflect how you view communal prayer.
25. Biblical history or biblical prophecy?
Discuss whether you are more captivated by the historical context of the Bible or intrigued by its prophetic elements.
These playful yet profound choices can lead to discoveries about personal faith and preferences, enriching your understanding of yourself and those around you in the Christian community.
